• Life Between The Matches

    Since this will be my last blog post for a while, I’ve spent a lot of…

  • The Difference A Year Makes

    As promised, I haven’t returned to the dating apps. That doesn’t mean I haven’t put myself…

  • The Last Message

    Ivan came over a few more times during the following weeks. One weekend, I thought he…

  • Taking Note

    Ivan came home the following evening. The trip had ended up being shorter than expected, but…

  • The Walls We Build

    Sometimes, life has a funny way of granting your wishes. After I left Ivan’s condo, I…

  • Looking Forward

    The following Friday, I drove up to Ivan’s condo. He lived about thirty minutes from me,…

  • Worth Staying Up For

    After things ended with Will, I didn’t immediately go back on Hinge. And by that, I…

  • When The Spark Fades

    Looking back, I think the mixed signals were the first sign that things were coming to…

  • What We Carry

    One evening, Will and I made plans to go bowling. The alley near my apartment was…

  • Finding A Rhythm

    Things with Will continued to go really well. By the time our second date rolled around,…